married to genius

the lurve doctor was in da house today. hubs and i were talking about love (our love) and then in a vulnerable moment i suddenly blurted out,"don't ever leave me ok." then he went,"huh?" so i explained,"you cannot leave me, you need to be with me forever." then he said,"no, no, we all know that i will die first." (of course this lead to a morbid "no i will die first" convee .. blah blah)

but then genius flowed. we were affirming our relationship (and i won't bore you with our mushy details) when he said,"babe, i cannot unlove you."

and he is so right. i mean .. in all circumstance, if you fall in love with something/ someone, you may fall out of love, but you cannot unlove.

love is love. a part of that person/ thing is now a part of you - it has molded you somehow. whether it is knowledge or an experience it has shaped your present being. and even if you fall out of love, the memory of the experience - of the good times -will live on and cannot be unloved.

geddit? i married a genius. who would have thought!